Autism Awareness Hawaii

I watched a documentary last night titled "Beautiful Son" by Don and Julianne King. This documentary featured their son Beau who has high functioning autism. I sat down and watched the movie and started to cry. This beautiful boy was so much like my very own son who was at home with his father at the time. To see another child who mirrors the everyday actions of your own child was eye opening. My son makes the same faces and put toys and books up to the corner of his eyes just as their son does. My son loves the water and their son is like a fish. I learned a lot from this documentary.

It also prompted me to start a poll. Hekili had chronic ear infections when he was younger along with what seemed like colds every month or so. My PED said it was normal but it never felt normal to me to see my child sick all the time. He was sick all too often. So I asked many other parents in my other autism groups and many of them (more than half) said that their children also had chronic ear infections and got sick all too often. So now my question is ... has this been studied? Are the PEDS communicating enough with each other to see a correlation?

I would be interested to hear what everyone else thinks or their experiences.

Sara

My son has recently started asking for anything that isn't in front of him when I am paying attention to my newborn daughter. I didn't put it together at first then I realized he really likes his one on one ABA sessions and wants more one on one time. So next time your child keeps asking for things every 2 minutes take time to read a book to them. It helped calm my son down enough for me to take care of his sister.

Here are a few more things to be aware of.

Loss of the following ...
-Language
-Eye Contact
-Smiles
-Spontaneity

Doing the following ...
-Spinning
-Stimming aka handflapping, finger flicking, and verbal stimming
-Squinting eyes to watch objects fall
-Watching from corner of the eye
-Sensory issues like licking, tasting, rubbing, pressing hard with face or chin, disliking textures of food or objects.
-Unwilling to try new foods
-Fearless and unaware of dangers

There are tons more that I will be adding as I get my list sorted. Thanks again!!

Ok let's talk meltdowns. Hekili usually doesn't have them too often and I can usually redirect his attention. This morning was a rare case. We went to an unfamiliar setting to eat breakfast and he wasn't done watching his Elmo show in the car. Many parents will tell you that if you take away something that reinforcing most children cry ... my child cried and was not able to console him. He wanted to leave the restaurant. We got the looks of shock like why don't you quiet your child. There was one couple however that was looking with an understanding and genuine empathy. We spoke and I found that they were able to relate to my story of this morning.

It is nice to meet people who understand and don't judge you or your child. It felt good to know that there was someone in the room of people who were not telling their family members what they would do if it were their child. Another reason I am on the mission to bring on more awareness. I really need to start carrying those Autism cards around with me. I should put this blog on it in the hopes that people will come here to get a better understanding.

Autism meltdowns can be hard to deal with. I know a lot of parents give in to what the child wants and I find myself doing the same. This only reinforces their behavior. So instead I tried to redirect him by tickling. That failed but he started to scratch and said scratch. I gently ran my finger tips down his arms and said scratch. It calmed him down almost immediately. I think that sensory has a lot more to do with the meltdowns than even I had been aware of.

So for other who do have children with Autism and face meltdowns, please share your experience and what has worked for you.

I wanted to share a visual version of an early sign of Autism. As many parents who have children with Autism will tell ... the children like to line things up. My son lines up everything from rocks to stuffed animals. Everything he lines up has to be facing the same way also. I never knew this was a sign but when he obsesses over lining up the toys instead of functional play , you have to start asking yourself if it is possibly a sign.

If any one has any questions for me please ask here. I will try my best to answer to the best of my capability. Thank you for your time.

Here is a small compilation of photos. This is a series I am doing to show a visual of what goes on in the life of a child with Autism.

I will post bigger individual photos to show some characteristics of Autism.